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How does one succeed in life?

15.06.2025 00:08

How does one succeed in life?

Making more friends is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Why is my ex still keeping in touch with me even though she dumped me?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Has your mother ever walked in on you at an inappropriate time?

What I need from you?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How do professional musicians handle their equipment during gigs? Do they bring their own or use the venue's sound system?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Oldest human DNA ever found tells the story of a lost branch on the human family tree - Earth.com

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

That's it for today.

What is the difference between "eher" and " lieber" in German? Are the two synonyms? If yes, then which one is the most used?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Do you have any attributes quirks sensitivities abilities etc that you've come to learn most people don't experience? E.g. dream with subtext or experience de ja vu regularly or know you experience life very differently from those around you etc?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What are the most meaningful Jewish jokes that reveal insights about Jewish culture?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why did we evolve to have so many nerve endings in our anuses?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What are the psychological reasons behind an extreme obsession with another human being?

Do not set goals—set systems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What was your experience when trying GHB?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Ask yourself:

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What is better, 4 more years of Trump with the media trying to hurt him, or 8 years of DeSantis with the media licking booty, or 4 to 8 years of RFK with the media hating on him all the time? (Biden is not an option, he can't win)

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why is it easy to make money in the USA?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?